Essentially, being a woman means to me being different, being other than man.
This difference is essential to me, as those individuals who act in ways that are similar as men tend to alarm me.
Specifically, being a man means to me that I do not need to be afraid of walking alone at night, I should be able to open jars on my own, and that I do not need to rely on others for help in most situations.
I compete with other males in our society to assert my male-ness by being self Being a man means that I have responsibility to consider how my actions affect others, and realize that I exist in a position of privilege that comes with a level of responsibility of being aware of my reactions, thoughts and actions concerning gender identity.
Most of this influence can be found in how men and women are portrayed in the media (Ohle, 2006).
It is known, however, that during the gestation period, the brain of a fetus starts to produce testosterone on developing nerve cells which then become either male or female in the absence of hormones (Swaab & Garcia-Falgueras, 2009).At the eighth week the fetus takes a chromosome from the father who can be either an X or a Y (Wickens, 2005).If the fetus takes an X chromosome it will stay a female, but if it takes a Y chromosome it begins making testosterone and other male hormones and will begin to develop as a male.My father defines being a man as essentially being the one to provide and care for others.He sees the male gender role as a provider, as the one with the responsibility to at least financially take care of those in his family and those dependent on him.In the determination of gender identity, social and cultural perceptions of what is considered masculine and feminine traits along with roles have to be considered.It is believed that gender is a learned process through socialization and by the culture of the society involved (Ohle, 2006).Being a woman to me means being a caring, empathetic person that puts the value of emotions above anything else.Womanhood stresses the importance of feelings and emotions, sometimes ignoring logic in the favor of being true to the feelings.I see this playing out in his life as he becomes more and more now the one among his siblings to take care of his aging mother, who has Alzheimer’s disease.What is gender identity Gender identity is a person’s concept of him or herself whether male or female, this can be either the same as their biological gender or it could be different (Schwartz, 2008).